We asked you to send your questions to our sex therapist. This time Jo from Fuel has agreed to share her pearls of wisdom on the issues that are important to YOU.
Hi Jo
My girlfriend and I recently decided to get into a bit of bondage to give our sex life a bit of a boost. Now it just so happens that I work as a police offer, so after one night at work I nipped back home with a pair of cuffs and the night was a success. However, she was so impressed by my uniform that she now demands I interrogate her for at least half an hour before we get down to any action. I even have to take her finger prints. What do you suggest I do?Cheers
Simon, Isle of Man.
Jesus! It sounds like your just gunna have to roll with this one, you started it after all! You could get her an eye scanner for Christmas, ha ha! Seriously though, if it all gets a bit too much, I suggest handcuffing her and leading her down to the cells (under the stairs/shed etc) to serve some time!
Hi Jo
My girlfriend hates racing in my car and the whole car scene in general. I’ve tried to get her down to cruises but she’s not having it. What can I do to get her addicted?
Steve
Battersea
Yes, well, whilst freezing your arse off in Halfords car park maybe fun for you, I can see why others may not be so keen. Why don’t you start by introducing her to some modded car mags like Redline, Fastcar and Maxpower. All have sections on cruise reports where the cruisers from that city get to appear in the mags, also many girls are scouted at cruises to feature in the amateur model sections. The thought of this may appeal to her a little more?! You may find she doesn’t care about this and becomes more into the cars, then you’d have to buy her one of her own-bummer! Either way she’d find it more fun if she was going for a reason.
Hi Jo
My girlfriend finds me so irresistible that she can’t stop ravishing me. Whether it’s a quick trip down to the supermarket or in the garage when I’m tuning up the car - the girl’s insatiable. What can I do to make her cool her off?
Paul
Kingston
Ok, are you sure you are the stud muffin you have us believe?, or could it be that you are not fully satisfying your girlfriends needs , thus the need to constantly pester for more….
Hi Jo
You’re fit. What are you up to tonight?
Matt S
South London
Why thank you Matt, quite the charmer aren’t we! Unfortunately tonight and for the foreseeable future I’m washing my hair! Mwaaaa x
Hi Jo
My girlfriend is really into the idea of having a threesome. This would be crackin’ but the problem is she wants the other person to be a bloke. I’m really not into the idea. What can I do to convince her otherwise?
Thanks Jo!
Chris
Manchester
Men expect girls to do untold amounts of things that they would never dream of doing themselves! I think this is mighty unfair, so... I think you should have the threesome (you may want to introduce a few guidelines though!) and tell her it’s on the understanding that next time it’s with another girl. That way, everyone’s a winner! Hey Chris!!!!!!!
Hi Jo
I’ve been along to a few car shows and events and have seen that a lot of the girls are into pole dancing. Have you tried this yourself? How do you get into it?Thanks
Charlotte
Ipswich
Hi Charlotte, Everyone seems to want to know this at the moment. As it happens I was a professional pole dancer for four and a half years so you’re asking the right girl! I turned up at the club with no experience and learnt on the job, which is one way of going about it and for a while the only way, however, pole dancing has become so massively mainstream these days there are many places to learn and courses to go on. www.mypole.com is a site that will help you with everything from where to go for lessons, buying your own pole, Clubs to dance at, and everything in-between! . The best bit of advise I can give you is to remember… whilst doing tricks on the pole may look spectacular and when performed sexily they are, its more important to look and feel sexy, rather than awkwardly contorting yourself into a messy shape, which I’ve seen a few ’car show’ pole dancers doing .Confidence, eye contact and slowly touching the body are very effective tools, trust me! This is pole dancing after all…not gymnastics! Hope this has helped x
Hi Jo
What tunes really get you off?
Ta
Philip,
Huddersfield
Good vibrations? Tunes that get me off? Well I’m not sure which tune it was exactly that was playing in the Fuel Challenger when I was sitting on the roof at Ultimate Street Car but it came close, ha! The whole car was vibrating so much I thought I was gonna get off there and then!
Hi Jo
Do you think it’s ok to shag on your first date?Anthony,
London.
There are two ways to look at a woman who shags on the first date (1) she’s easy (2) she’s a woman who knows what she wants! Would you like a date with me to find out which one I am?
Hi Jo
What are you and the other fuel girls up to over the winter?
Richard
Stoke
This year has been great for us; we’ve had so much fun and met really cool people. This summer alone we have performed in, among others, Athens, Holland, Brussels, Scotland, Ireland, Paris and these are the places we managed to squeeze in on our ‘weekends off’ from the British show scene. Next year sees a full assault on Europe, covering all the countries that weren’t lucky enough to get us this time, some crazy places like, Poland and Russia! And also a little whisper of some possible appearances stateside! So in answer to your question………preparation!!!! At the moment we are busy putting together and rehearsing a new show, working with a stylist from LA on some crazy outfits, doing publicity shoots, re-launching the Fuel Girls website, which is going to be awesome, and the place to go if you want to see a little more of us!! He he! Check it out at www.fuelgarage.co.uk. I really can’t wait for the show season to stat again and to see everyone about in 2006 x